Perspective and Freedom — Donna Hopkins

In my younger years, my focus was on productivity. There was always something that needed doing or someone who needed caring for. Life was about checking things off a To-Do List. When we traveled it was always to get somewhere, and stops along the way were detours, inconveniences, and slowed us down in ways we could not afford or would not allow. I vowed to myself that I would not leave this earth without giving myself the freedom to slow down. There are still days with appointments and commitments. Still chores and errands and unexpected happenings. I understand that aging is a messy, imperfect, and unique experience. But most days, I make time to wander. My husband is incredibly supportive of my need to explore and mostly, he is this way, too. We never know where we will end up each day, what we may find, or who we may meet. We only know that elderhood feels like the open air.

“What are your goals? What gives you purpose and meaning? What will bring you joy today? If you want to change your worldview, change the questions that you ask of yourself and others.” —Ageism Unmasked, Tracey Gendron